Sometimes you just have to realize that some people are dumb asses. You can't fix stupid. So when someone drops you because their girlfriend/boyfriend says you can't talk to them anymore (*cough* AJ *cough*) then jut let it be. Someone's bound to realize the mistake there. If you can not trust your boyfriend/girlfriend to talk to other people, you have issues and should not be together. And yes, I'm aware that I just called someone out, and yes, they'll give me shit for it but let's get some opinions. If his girlfriend told him he couldn't talk to any girls at all and has access to his Snapchat, Instagram, Facebook, etc., is that over stepping some boundaries? I think it is especially over stepping when the girlfriend gets involved and tells you "if I don't want my man talking to other girls, he won't talk to other girls so fuck off". First off, honey, he's not "your man". He's your boyfriend. You don't own him. He's not your pet. He is supposed to be someone you love and care about and trust enough to say "yeah, you can talk to your friends that are girls." A relationship without trust, is not a relationship. I've learned this. So give me y'alls in put. Were some boundaries crossed? #goth#gothic#gothgirl#gothmakeup#greeneyes#redhair#blackhair#blacklips#makeup#darkmakeup#wiccan#witchbitch#witch#emo#emogirl#alternativegirl#ashcostello#grunge#newyearsday#bands#music#pale#relationships#goodnight
For those who self-harm who question: "Why didn't they notice?", "Why didn't they bother ask?", "Why didn't they help?" People DO notice. But some do not know what to do or say. I mean, for someone who has no idea or has never dealt with self-harm, and then sees someone with cuts, bruises, scars, etc., How do you think they are supposed to act?
As a person a long time ago who was in this position, you have to remember, not everything is also self-harm. Some can be a result of abuse/trauma, substance abuse, accident, surgery or a health problem, etc. People are cautious, some don't want to be rude or even upset you if it IS personal. I mean, you can't expect strangers to understand marks on your body, especially when they are made visable. I mean, for all they know, you don't want to be asked or perhaps you will attack them?
But I gaurentee you someone notices and may want to approach you...give them the benefit of the doubt that not all people will know how to approach, voice or help you. Some are confused, some may be too afraid to do anything at all.
If you really are concerned, please get this person help of some kind or talk to them when it is the right time or more conveinent.
For those hurting,
Don't think you are alone.
There are two kinds of hope- Sympathy and Empathy.
Be patient or if you have anyone or help to go to, DO IT. You will be glad you did. ❤
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Touch me... touch me she cried from the deepest reaches of her heart, from her centered soul, from what was once a place of voided darkness; yet shining upon her soft exterior were the hands of the one who held her there, captive just above her reflection on the surface of her shy expressive self. She waxes and wanes in the hands of her maker as he lulls her to sleep, never desiring to change her more than she desires to change the many phases of her emerging light. Touch me not with simple words, nor soft caresses of a natural kind, no no no touch me in places no one else has ever been. Touch me in the darkest places that now shine so bright in thy hands. Give to me thy word in deed and honor in vows of eternal love that I may know your touch and sense its pleasure in divine pain within its absence. Touch me there. Touch me. 😘💋 Christine St.Croix 9/19/2017 Photo borrowed from a extremely artistic goth jewelry maker Bianca @paletreearcana 🖤 you #wordporn#us#we#light#darkness#i#love#you#captivate#me#moon#shadow#pale#goth#touch#hands#maker#writersofinstagram#man#writerscommunity#touch
I literally say down for 5 seconds today at marching band and our band director came over all pissy and shit saying to stop sitting out when I don't even sit out everyday. Then I started crying while I was doing my guard work and the flag hit me so hard on my head and I started crying even harder. Ugh.